所(どころ)かfar from, anything but, not at all, let alone, to say nothing of, not to speak of, much less

昼寝(ひるね)どころか、私(わたし)は夜(よる)も眠(ねむ)れません。

Far from taking a nap, I can't even sleep at night. {far from, anything but, not at all, let alone, to say nothing of, not to speak of, much less}

彼(かれ)は直接(ちょくせつ)会(あ)う所(どころ)か電話(でんわ)すらしてくれなかった。

He didn't even give me a phone call, let alone meet me in person. {far from, anything but, not at all, let alone, to say nothing of, not to speak of, much less}

彼(かれ)は難(むずか)しい計算(けいさん)どころか簡単(かんたん)な足(た)し算(ざん)もできません。

He is far from being able to do difficult calculations, he can't even do simple addition. {far from, anything but, not at all, let alone, to say nothing of, not to speak of, much less}

この国(くに)には文章(ぶんしょう)所(どころ)か自分(じぶん)の名前(なまえ)も書(か)けない子供(こども)たちが沢山(たくさん)います。

In this country, there are many children who can't even write their own names, let alone a sentence. {far from, anything but, not at all, let alone, to say nothing of, not to speak of, much less}

愛(あい)：「彼(かれ)のこと知(し)っている？」建(たける)：「知(し)っている所(どころ)か、あいつは俺(おれ)の兄(あに)だ。」

Ai: "Do you know him?" Ken: "Know him? Far from that, he is my brother." {far from, anything but, not at all, let alone, to say nothing of, not to speak of, much less}