有(あ)って無(な)いlacking in some desired property (size, usefulness, etc.)

DV夫(おっと)への愛情(あいじょう)は有(あ)って無(な)いものである。

The love for an abusive husband is something that exists yet lacks the desired properties. {lacking in some desired property (size, usefulness, etc.)}

スパルタの上司(じょうし)に親切心(しんせつしん)は有(あ)って無(な)いものです。

In a Spartan boss, kindness is something that exists but is lacking in some desired property (size, usefulness, etc.). {lacking in some desired property (size, usefulness, etc.)}

たった十(じゅう)ミリの水(みず)…これは有(あ)って無(な)いようなものだ。

Just 10 millimeters of water... This is practically non-existent due to its lack of size or usefulness. {lacking in some desired property (size, usefulness, etc.)}

有(あ)って無(な)いような賃金(ちんぎん)をもらったところで嬉(うれ)しくありません。

I wouldn't be happy even if I received a wage that seems to exist but is lacking in some desired property like size or usefulness. {lacking in some desired property (size, usefulness, etc.)}

有給(ゆうきゅう)が一(いち)年(ねん)にたった五日(いつか)しかない？！そんなの有(あ)って無(な)いようなものだ。

Only 5 paid leave days in a year?! That's practically nonexistent, considering its usefulness. {lacking in some desired property (size, usefulness, etc.)}