取(と)り合(あ)うto join (hands), to take (each other's hands), to scramble for, to struggle for, to fight for, to pay attention to, to take notice of, to listen to, to concern oneself with, to deal with

辞書の定義

五段活用（ア行・ワ行）, 他動詞
1. 1.
  EN to join (hands), to take (each other's hands)
  as 手を〜,
  関連項目:
  手を取り合う
2. 2.
  EN to scramble for, to struggle for, to fight for
五段活用（ア行・ワ行）, 自動詞
1. 3.
  EN to pay attention to, to take notice of, to listen to, to concern oneself with, to deal with
  usu. in the negative